Stupse. Ive had to explain to a Scottish-Canadian that Im only joking with my abusive humour. Ghanians Why Do U Pretend To Hate Nigerians, And Ethiopians Love Us? Have you ever wondered whats it like being a Jamaican living in Ghana? Straight forward. Listen, how I see is it that Jamaica has its own culture just as any culture mixed from its traditions environment and a fingerprint of factors. We were taught that any mad/crazy slave or any slave who could not take instructions, were shipped off to Jamaica. Mller and Schwarz (2021) find that the posting. Jamaica is definitely an extremely homophobic country. And that goes for everyone, women included. Is a stew that they call Contumre or Palaver Sauce, which is actually dasheen leaves, cooked down with a smokey fish, cooked with Palm oil and wi (we) eat it with green, boiled green plantain, like how Jamaicans eat boil green bananas? . Total myth. That my passport is expired. Also, what many outsiders view as us fussing is us having a good time. Ruth: So, I hooked up with a Ghanaian at university in the US, and we got married, in Jamaica. It sits in a soup, in a very spicy soup. The people who do eat it, eat it like a fruit. Reprisal killings make up a significant portion of our murder rate in Jamaica. The Chieftaincy System keeps it very much alive. Xavier: Good. Most of us speak patois, which is an aggressive language, like German. As I tell everybody, youre free to crack jokes with the people around you in both of these countries. They claim Jamaica also, obviously. They heard it so often and wanted their freedom so badly that they started to believe something must be wrong with them. Here is your epic story rhyme and poems and story plot lines and all. EpicJamaica (@epicjamaica) March 8, 2020, Alexis Chateau (@alexischateau_) March 8, 2020, This is one of the big reasons I'm leaving the Southeast. Jamaican men can try to boss Jamaican women around all they like, but unlike America, we have a predominantly Black Matriarchal culture. WebJamaicans hate utility bills especially for water and light (electricity). So finally, when he comes, you say, So why you never tell me? Bwoy (boy), a never want to upset you. I love Nigerians, I dont just know, seriously Ghanians should stop the hatings, when they come over the internet, they pretend to hate us, but when they see an advert of work from a nigerian home abroad, they will be the first to rush to call over the phone that they need the job. Maybe a little bit more, I dont know, but it wasnt too far. Its not that obvious, but if you keep quiet, you can hear what Ghana is and hear what it represents. WebHaitians and Jamaicans, just like many other immigrants groups in the U.S, have tension because they see each other as competition. So people will be very unbothered straightforward and confident but it is attached to those outer things so they will put you down for your dumb question like I said but will not want to hear about their own. When you come to the U.S., Americans want you to look American and sound American. In another paper (Mller and There are no hurt feelings, but if you dont know our culture you would assume otherwise. Between 1845 and 1917, more than 36,000 Indians came from British India to British Jamaica because of the deteriorating socio-economic conditions in India at the time. It was Black Uhuru, Steel Pulse. I strongly believe there are 3 sides to every story. Were kind of like the Nigerians. Saving water and electricity is an art practiced by many Jamaicans daily. There, its very hierarchical. I stood and see more than one person get bloodied for some simple thing. And at some point, we left the US to be in South Africa, and then came back to Ghana. Personally, I much prefer this over America where you can be the President of the United States and still be called a N1gg3r and asked for your birth certificate. Is Anyone Taking American Politics Seriously Anymore? Thats very, very interesting. Put more simply, we are not a culture that beats around the bush and we dislike people who do. But let me say this on the flip side, and you said something that was very interesting. Put Nuff Gravy is the anthem of many Jamaicans when they go to restaurants and street food vendors. Why is that? Whats the thing you like the least? Now, Jamaica tek (take) dancing to another level, youre saying that, not even close? I for one have loads of Nigerian friends.. A friend I have from the middle east explained how giving a thumbs up is actually the same as giving the middle finger in the U.S. You know, Jamaican would say, A lie yu a tell man, a lie. (you are telling a lie), No. We saw it-. Although in Jamaica sexual boundaries are rigidly and violently monitored, we integrate readily and easily with different ethnicities, political views and national boundaries. Ruth: Apart from patties? I think its beautiful to watch that. Hello Marie! Xavier: And you may not have many of them. What did they do? The majority of Jamaicans arent. Canadians are not as bossy and the Commonwealth ties sometimes makes it easier for us to catch the dry humour. We are like, what you see is what you get. And you do have to watch yourself quite a bit. But there's plenty of "traditionally" nice Jamaicans though lol, Ni-Ko-lis We-li-yams, MBA (@InTheNickATime) March 8, 2020. Joining Lines & Line Cutters Beg yuh a bli nuh, mi cyan stan up lang caw mi hab gas inna mi foot Xavier: Because maybe now that explains the other side of, the DNA results that I got, which says Ben in Ghana and Nigeria. Youll miss how powerful women are because women run the markets, thats their business, and you can be a millionaire on the market. I know some very nice jamaicans but if you date a jamaican man especially who grew up poor and had to be even harder. Were, again, you know, I think in some places the Nigerians, they seem like the type that will tell you like it is. You can find, Lets think. Thats blatantly hateful behavior and a completely separate topic from what were discussing here. It comes from way back and it persists to this day. Ruth: Yes. Ruth: Okay. But to others, it isn't. To submit your own articles or to advertise with us please send us an EMAIL at: [emailprotected], Proud to be a jamaican I didnt know this story but for sure I dont bow and they hate me for that never know my ancestors was like me good to know. And the other thing is dasheen. . Xavier: All right. Ruth: Yes. Ruth: Im good Xavier. Yes. Okay. There is also an attitude of being a bad man or bad gyal. WebJamaicans do not take kindly to insults. Why do you people loose sleep over a perceived hatred from Ghanians? So if you are going to be lying down on a beach in a swimsuit, you will find people coming home from a funeral, staring at you, kind of thinking, what are you doing? So they dont tend to display their body, to design clothing, to display their body like that. They say American hate waiting on the phone for Customer Service. You may not have many. Thats why a say, I have to come back. Watching people dodging rain drops in Jamaica is like watching Neo in the movie the Matrix dodging bullets. When you see people walking and their body rocks like your body rocks or when they dance. The other thing I like about Ghana is, well, theres so many things. In Ghana, so thats what I would do in Ghana. Xavier: Well, heres my next question. Ruth: Its embedded somehow in the tradition of, you know, centuries. Men being very bossy to women, using them, cheating. The other one that I used to get quite often and it would make me laugh. We will brag about cutting lines while others waited hours. jamaycanprincess (@jamaycanprinces) March 8, 2020. As mad/crazy as they were (supposedly), these humans knew they didnt want to be slaves. WebWhat I have realized from going between both communities is this belief that my fellow Jamaicans hold that, most African Americans are lazy, unambitious and therefore deserve whatever negative attitude they may receive from a majority class. Ruth: You just to absorb it. Thank God for the internet. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from this sites author and/or owner is strictly prohibited. Be careful. Both nations are members of the United Nations, however neither country has a resident ambassador. I have two Jamaicans in my house and I love them to death. More like direct. WebYes, they both feel like home. Babylon give you a toy.in your mind you turn cowboy. If you would like to evacuate a room of Jamaicans quickly, scream croaking lizard. The language has a distinctive rhythmic and melodic quality. I know thats bizarre for Americans and most other nationalities because America is a White Patriarchy. If you look awful in that dress, we will tell you so and hurt your feelings. Who the first time Audley came, I ah she (a said), come, yuh (you) have to go to a market. I have a Haitian family member, for instance, who shared that it wasnt the White kids telling him to go back to his country. All rights reserved. God forbid, touch wood, that something should happen to my husband. , Alexis Chateau (@alexischateau_) March 7, 2020, Moved from Jamaica to NYC so ppl would say I'm mean I can be very mean but that also depends on you, so just move outta my way n don't come to me with nonsense, VanillaBeans (@TiinaBeans) March 8, 2020. You know, and that traditions have been carried out since then. So Nigerians and Ghanaians in temperament tend to be very different that way. If I said to you, Xavier, bwoy (boy), mi a (I am) get married next week enuh (you know), yuh (you) coming to the wedding? As a Jamaican, yuh seh, Bwoy mi have sumn book fi next week so, a cya come. (you say, boy I have something book for next week so, a cannot come). Still, there is another side of Jamaicans. I leave the Americans to ponder that one. Because historically were so linked to Ghana. Xavier: -its emotional. Hes Ghanaian, so just like me, he spent all his schooling years in Ghana, and then went to the US to University. Many Jamaicans tend to see foreigners as hypocritical because they will smile with you even if they can't stand you, Medium Fluffy (@averagejamaican) March 8, 2020. You need to wait a certain amount of time. You have to greet them in a counterclockwise direction. Ruth: Another thing is, and where we run into this all the time is, if a plumber comes to the house and they say, Boy, you can fix this pipe? Yes, man. Clothes, looks, being right, what they have or can do with a lack of intrinsic worth and emotional understanding. they give all Black folks a bad reputation. Haha.I would say direct & passionate instead. Too bad for them that I can compare an attitude/image to 100 different (awful) things, Ambrosia Blue Lagoon Budget (@ambrosia_omG) March 7, 2020, Not mean, we're just an extremely direct culture. So, it is not me who needs peace or therapy. But they also cant handled being cheated on for example. Having little but putting on the fake diamonds. These are all symptoms of living more from ego seen in any culture. So, that stew with that, and yeah. Total BS headline. It shows up in the daily protocol, how you say hello to people. But, this aggressiveness, is seen as playfulness in our culture. 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